Guys often fear that they are not good looking enough to find good women. A lot of the time this is an irrational belief, though. Physical looks matter a lot less than you think. While it is important to look your best, it takes surprisingly little to improve how women see you.
A lot of people think that attraction is a matter of luck, or physical characteristics. Nothing could be further from the truth. Attraction is something that can be enhanced, or destroyed, and you have tremendous power of control over it.
Lacking skills but not really sure how to improve? I was in the same boat years ago, and what I discovered can help you improve your dating skills dramatically.
As men, we are set up to fulfill a certain social role. This role is incompatible with being a victim. Due to gender stereotypes, men have been set up to be the aggressor, or perpetrator, and there’s pretty much nothing we can do about it.
A lot of guys neglect how important state of mind is when talking to women, focusing instead on knowing what to say and how good looking they are. While these things are important, state of mind is by far more important when it comes to having success with women. Ignore state of mind at your own peril, but learn how to control it and your success will dramatically improve.
Most men think that a woman is interested in satisfying our needs if she’s happy in the relationship. Experience proves otherwise.
Getting stuck on what to say to a girl you’re interested in is one of the biggest problems guys face when meeting new women. It’s also one of the silliest problems to worry about. Ultimately it matters more what you say next than it does what you say at first.
A lot of guys think that if they just learn how to become good with women then they will be able to pick up any women they want with minimal effort. Not only is this belief wrong, but it could be dangerous. Having a realistic understanding of rejection will go a long way to building resilience when nothing seems to be going right.
With roughly 50 countries in Asia, and billions of people, you might as well concentrate on the countries where you have the best shot at meeting high quality women.
After years of dating some of the hottest women in Asia, I’ve stumbled onto a trend: Super $$$ chicks generally fall into three rough categories. No matter who you go for, knowing what you’re dealing with is key to getting what you want.